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    <subtitle>Tell Anyone and It Won&#39;t Be a Secret for Long ... but there&#39;s no accurate prediction of what happens when you share</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>It Was You, Wasn&#39;t It ...</title>   
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         On television, in shows such as &quot;Perry Mason&quot; and &quot;Ironside,&quot; Raymond Burr ferreted out the secrets of others. Off screen, he had secrets of his own to hide, include a love of fine wine and orchids he shared with his partner of 35 years -- the les...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Secret to a Bad Relationship</title>   
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         That both people find a mutually agreeable between the sharing and keeping of secrets is a relationship key. For example, a wife may not actually want to know that a husband is looking for momentary sexual comfort. And a husband may (for whatever ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>10 You Don&#39;t Tell ... You Don&#39;t Say?</title>   
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         On a few levels, your relationship should probably be questioned if you need to be prompted not to (No. 9 of 10 Secrets You Must Never Tell) confess to sexually cheating while your partner was away. Perhaps you should refer to the alpha secret: do...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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         Chief prophet of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Warren Jeffs, has a vision that virtuous men should have three wives. So, his secretive sect kicks out boys for wanting to keep boy-type secrets. And that improves th...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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         The shark of infidelity or the piranhas of tiny lies. The shark probably kills faster, but which way of cheating instead of committing is more harmful to a relationship? Does it matter when the relationship has died? Of course, by the time a coupl...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Peace from Secrets?</title>   
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         Sex. Money. Does keeping secrets from a spouse lead to peace by varnishing a foundation or send a relationship in the opposite direction by grinding away at it? Does it matter if they are big secrets (an affair) or small (the cost of a present)? I...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Heartbreak</title>   
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        <published>2007-03-06T12:05:09Z</published>
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         British scientists claim to have tested the difference in men and women who break up. They found women generally suffer more, but only the individual can know how unbearable the pain for him or her.   ** What relationships from the buried past lie...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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